When we pull into the driveway, McAvoy comes out and carries Mendez into the house. He started as a manager on his Gilroy High School team as a freshman. They tell Rob he can't coach for at least four weeks. "Where you going, man?". "I don't think I could do that to those kids," he says. It's a move he makes countless times a day. The day is designed by college coaches in order to get the most out of everyone's time. ", "You don't need to apologize," Mendez says. A FEW MINUTES after our first beer, a bartender brings Mendez a plate of California rolls. High School North Kansas City . I was a little nervous about it," Cable says. Email Mark Fisher. What do you want out of this year? With a dream of one day becoming a head football coach, Mendez worked for years as an assistant at various schools, until he was finally given the opportunity he'd been working for. But here, he's in his element. His father has long wished that Rob would wear an upper belt as well as the one that wraps around his waist. Thats how I feel in my chair. That's not me," Mendez says. We end up talking for nearly three hours. Jan 31, 2023 4:00 PM PST. Rob would set his chin on the ledge of the next step and use that to lift his entire body. It's society that imposes that grief. It's almost midnight. I agree it's a small percentage. This is the opportunity he has waited 12 years for, the one he long felt he deserved but worried would never come. "In a text message." ", Mendez hopes to someday have the opportunity to coach varsity. A class of 2021 recruit, Buddin was considered a four-star prospect out of high school and a top 40 linebacker in the country, according to 247 Sports. At that point, she says, abortion wasn't an option. "Think about it. "This was confirmation that you know what, I'm doing OK," he says. Now he has everyone asking, "who says I can't? "But we really have to sell that we are going that way. He can see how they've grown as players and people. The time away from football has given Mendez a chance to reflect on his first season as a head coach. WITH LESS THAN two minutes remaining in the game, Prospect trails 3-0 facing a fourth-and-14 just inside Sobrato territory. Mendez shakes his head. As the quarterback rolls out, the play unfolds perfectly. Preston Gannaway for ESPN. More award-winning storytelling from SC Featured, One dog's remarkable journey to find a home, "Screw that," he says. He insists he's fine, and we order beers. "When someone is born this way, this is their world," says Dr. Benjamin Mandac, Mendez's pediatric physical therapist who now is the head of that department at Kaiser Permanente in the Bay Area. The driver makes a U-turn, pulls in front of Mendez and flips on his hazards. Clemson Tiger Bryan Bresee returned from an ACL injury to become a highly rated defensive draft prospect. Fore was named to the Hudl Top 100 in 2017, and the Top 5 Best High School Football Coaches to follow on Twitter by MaxPreps in 2016. THREE MONTHS AFTER we first met, Mendez and I are in another bar, this time in downtown Campbell. 1 poison," he says. "The Sobrato loss still bothers me," he says in February. Mendez taught himself the game of football by playing Madden on a PlayStation, using his chin and collarbone to push the buttons. "I love you, bro. Mendez gives me directions. WITH LESS THAN two minutes remaining in the game, Prospect trails 3-0 facing a fourth-and-14 just inside Sobrato territory. When the final buzzer sounds, the players and coaches line up at the 50 to shake hands. When coaches ask you to go on an official visit, paid for by the school's program, they're using their budget to show off their school and create an impressive experience for you as a recruit. How does he sleep? "I can guarantee you there is someone with no arms and legs living in the mountains somewhere with a whole different story who isn't as active as we are. ", Mendez leans forward in his chair. Prospect Golf Course . It's only junior varsity. The green mile marker signs fly past on Highway 101. by Elk Grove. "Honestly, when I first hired him at Sobrato High School, I knew he was something special. The day-to-day blanks are easy for him to fill in. ROB MENDEZ IS not only the most unique high school football coach in America, he's one of the most unique humans in the world. "I got it. Along the way, Cable invited Mendez's two best players to move to varsity. "It brings out the best in people. I'm proud of you. Aleksic, Danilo ( Fr.) This standout in-state offensive lineman is staying in touch with Clemson's O-line coach. 2 QB and overall prospect by ESPN and is . He wanted to leave by 9 p.m., but one conversation led to another. He couldn't get enough. Coach Mendez. Mendez screams. A handful of schools reach out about head-coaching jobs, but he says he's almost certain he will return to Prospect to lead its JV squad again next season. The day is designed by college coaches in order to get the most out of . Mendez didn't care. the driver asks. "I'm so proud of you. With the pen, Mendez draws the X's and O's of what the play is supposed to look like and why. He reads, draws and spends extra time with family and friends. "The Super Bowl of JV football," he says. The positiveness of your mind can get you to do unbelievable things and feats and that's what he does.". Three other players start chitchatting between reps. Mendez loses it. has become a motto for the Prospect Football teams and, of course, for Mendez. He couldn't get enough. "It brings out the best in people. The players jog back to their positions. How did someone who has never thrown a ball, caught a pass or tackled anyone become a head coach? He has scoliosis, which makes his spine look far more like an "S" than the "I." "We are two very different people. Sobrato is located across the street from his parents' home in Morgan Hill. Still does. You know how Ironman gets in his suit and he just starts flying everywhere? On this day, one of his freshman quarterbacks struggles to grasp the footwork on the 37 stretch. When Mendez first took over the coaching job, many kids on the team were surprised to see a man with his condition coaching them. When his players ask what happened, he tells them he got into a fight with the pavement. It gives me this sense of independence., Sign up for the For The Win newsletter to get our top stories in your inbox every morning. It seems like no big deal. I'm not beautiful at all. But I don't know what else to say. But he's always there for the kids. He towed his friends around the neighborhood on their skateboards. "I'm pretty good at dealing with pain, and I didn't want to stay home feeling sorry for myself," he says. When the players met their new coach, the whispers began. "I know that's there," he says. It just makes me mad." It means that you aren't putting yourself in front of coaches that would actually recruit you. He says if he had arms and legs he has no idea how his life would be different. The school sits on the western edge of Silicon Valley, just 5 miles from Apple's campus. And because of Rob's lack of limbs, his father says he retains 30 percent more heat than someone who has arms and legs. If all goes well, a receiver should be open about 15 yards downfield right in front of the Prospect sideline. Taking a bath. He has scoliosis, which makes his spine look far more like an "S" than the "I." I assume Mendez will pilot his wheelchair on the sidewalk and I'll drive alongside for the five dimly lit blocks back to his house. "But I don't think about this the same way everybody else does," he says. It showed him how much energy he draws from the kids. He drew up game plans on Madden and took them to practice. Georgia Tech Football allows high school football coaches to request two (2) complimentary tickets to attend regular season home football games. But at 24, I didn't really know what to do or say at the time.". After a shortened 6-game spring season, that ended on April 23, it was back on the field 108 days later. ", Mendez makes a trip to a nearby shopping center for coffee. For now, I start with a topic far simpler: football. Mendez is hungry. How does he coach football? Pub. In the morning, he will coach the biggest game of his young career. They sit in front of us, untouched, for nearly 10 minutes. Mendez gains happiness and joy through helping others and that will be his message when he takes the podium for his acceptance speech. Elk Grove High School. he yells. College Football Prospect ID events are the first premier event following the 2022 high school and college football seasons. Email Melissa Feucht. You're different. It gives me hope for the world." 1 poison. I love it. Some of his plays even came from playing Madden. Class 8A Sean Allison,. "There you go!" The lift mechanism on his wheelchair broke on the trip. He turns his face to the right, pulls his head back and prays. He can be reached at wayne.drehs@espn.com. The school sits on the western edge of Silicon Valley, just 5 miles from Apple's campus. Neither team has moved the ball all day, with the game's only points coming on a 35-yard Sobrato field goal three minutes earlier. And Mendez had the title he had achingly sought: head coach. The lift mechanism on his wheelchair broke on the trip. . "We live and die with each other," he says. His parents connected him with Vujicic, who Mendez said told him he could make $25,000 per night as a motivational speaker. The more successful Mendez is at proving he's just like everyone else, the more people put him on that pedestal, peg him as an inspiration and treat him, well, different from everyone else. But coaches on his staff says he only used that as an opportunity to teach and motivate once again. And buckling Rob into his chair. What the hell does that even mean? I agree it's a small percentage. The next day he spends almost entirely in bed, unable to open his eyes. I definitely want to be a varsity head coach, if not, advanced in the college career or the NFL. For the past six years, Mike McAvoy has been Rob Mendez's caretaker, roommate and friend, each morning helping him with everything from taking a bath and brushing his teeth to getting dressed and eating breakfast. It actually came well before Mendez started coaching football. Mendez doesn't buy it. Three blocks in, a blue pickup driving in the other direction recognizes the wheelchair. He insists he's fine, and we order beers. The 14-year-old wraps his arms tightly around Mendez's back. I was a little nervous about it," Cable says. He reads, draws and spends extra time with family and friends. Elk Grove Village, IL. How High School Football Coaches Help Their Players Get Recruited Sanjay Kirpalani July 5, 2013 Dothan (Ala.) High School head coach Kelvis White is one example of prep coaches doing. I'd completely forgotten that Mendez can't feed himself. But on this late July night, 30-year-old high school football coach Rob Mendez has a taste for sushi. (2007-10), and Wake Forest Demon Decons (2010-14); currently an assistant coach for the Memphis Grizzlies. Preston Gannaway for ESPN "Where you going, man?" How do you move a fully grown adult with no arms and legs? Rob's father saw potential in the happy, spunky baby, but also wrestled with his own emotions, admitting he often asked God "why?" Confirmation/Rejection emails will be sent out by 1:00 PM Thursday letting you know if you are awarded tickets. ( Google map, other maps) Mt. Its classrooms are a melting pot. Mendez didn't care. I tell him that's the most honest he's been in our time together. "Get over here!" ", Mendez acknowledges that his presence has had a positive impact on people. There's a lot on his mind. A young boy holds open the door as Mendez approaches his favorite spot. After a few minutes of conversation, Cable believed he had his man. Some might suggest he should be home, resting. How does he eat? How to Be a High School Football Coach Download Article parts 1 Gaining the Necessary Skills 2 Landing a Job 3 Becoming a Great Coach Other Sections Related Articles References Co-authored by wikiHow Staff Last Updated: June 10, 2021 References Coaching high school football requires more than passion for the game. It happened at the end of his senior prom, when he tipped over the wheelchair ramp as he and his classmates were leaving. It's an image his brain can't compute. Only football coach requests will be accepted. As the clock approaches 11 p.m., he looks at his empty glass and asks for another drink. I stuff a pad between him and the chair back -- paranoid he could fall. "He may not look like a coach, but he definitely acts like one," one of his players said. Mendez is hungry. "You don't need to apologize," Mendez says. DeBoeuf named new football coach February 23, 2018 By Jack Ankony, Executive Sports Editor A new, energetic face will be leading the Prospect Football program into George Gattas Memorial Stadium on Friday nights next fall. "But I don't think about this the same way everybody else does. IT'S THE BIGGEST weekend of the year in Gilroy, California, with more than 100,000 people visiting for the annual garlic festival. I love the feeling when I lift kids up. The throw is too long, and the ball harmlessly caroms out of bounds. In less than a minute he introduces himself, then me and strikes up a conversation. They gave me a feeling of importance. It is hard for college coaches to obtain rosters from high school coaches, and even harder to get them to hand over contact . At the end of every day, I'm sore.". "We have unfinished business." Preston Gannaway for ESPN. He's meeting me at the bar. Preston Gannaway for ESPN. He tells the story of his father putting him on the stairs when he was 9 years old, demanding that he climb to the top. But here, he's in his element. But Mendez doesn't care about that. Prospect High School junior varsity football coach Rob Mendez, who was born without limbs, was honored on Wednesday night at the ESPYS with the Jimmy V Award for Perseverance. "They don't have the grief of losing a limb because they never had it. I just want to prove them wrong. "I think it always will." "I wish more people were like that. And yeah, of course that's frustrating." I suggest we move to a lower table and make things easier. When his friends went out for football his freshman year of high school, Rob became the team manager. "You have to believe," he says. And that includes getting on the officials when something doesn't go his way. And there's the reality of what he feels, but rarely reveals. And different is not bad. The California Cool of Jared Goff It's a move he makes countless times a day. But he wonders whether the players have any idea what they've given him. "Bugs the s--- out of me," he says. I don't focus on it. The school they will face, Ann Sobrato, fired Mendez as an assistant three years earlier. 14 prospect in the state of Tennessee . I put Mendez on my shoulder, turn and then set him in the chair next to me. Tears begin to fall. "I just wanted to coach football.". Prepped at Blackman High School under head coach Chandler Tygard . "Yes!" I know I'm good for the kids. A few minutes later, he asks if I can follow him home. Rob is no different.". "I'm sorry," he says. To feel comfortable. I can work with people. There have been opportunities over the years to pursue prosthetic limbs, but he has turned them all down. The coach. Later, she would cover Rob in blankets when they went in public. When his friends played basketball, Rob was the referee. Tournament Game 2022 Illinois High School Football Playoff Brackets: IHSA Class 7A Reavis 13 Prospect 62 Final Box Score Tournament Bracket Oct 29, 2022 @ 2:03am Eric Frantz Friday, Oct 28, 2022 I think he needs them just as much. And swimming. After a few minutes of conversation, he seemed like any other football coach having a beer on a Friday night. LESS THAN TWO weeks before his son's first game as a head coach, Bob Mendez prepares to drive Rob home after Sunday family dinner. Embrace it. Doctors prepared her and her husband for the worst. He drew up game plans on Madden and took them to practice. There is nothing to break his fall. Next year you'll be back in it, believe me." 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