So she left to pick their kid up from school because she didnt hear from him then when she heard back from him that he had her she decided to come to our house (its on the way to school) to idk what confront him about not answering her? DEAR AMY: Two years ago, I was casually seeing a man, Brian, for about a months time. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Reply . I know I cant save him and it needs to come from him but something just doesnt add up. TL;DR - My question is kind of advice, support, or at least insist that he loves me and my first time she slept with someone. This is meant to keep you off balance. I called the cops on one who did that. That just reassured her that the "relationship power" still belongs to her. He showed up to my house unannounced the next day to repeat what we had already discussed. If you would like to change your settings or withdraw consent at any time, the link to do so is in our privacy policy accessible from our home page.. And this is torture. I don't think I'd communicate with him in person just yet. The break up was due to you sleeping with someone else very early on in your relationship when you were not exclusive, right? I tried explaining that I had friends that are guys and that they were JUST friends but he wouldnt buy that either. Then we left and as he was walking he started getting increasingly angry again started calling me names again and started telling me he was on the internet all night looking at my myspace/facebook/blogs and saying he saw "all the guys i talk to". Ex husband tried at each place to show up unannounced and come in, with the premise of dropping my daughter off. Showing up at ex house unannounced If you ever loved your ex boyfriend/girlfriend and want to get him/her back then this book recommendation can be your ticket to restore what was lost. No doubt! Take some time apart, and don't talk for a while as every conversation will be hurtful in one way or another for a long time yet. She said that she felt like being with someone else would help her. And I got really mad, saying that I felt like she used me, I felt like a two-year crutch. A woman said she took her five-year-old child to the home of a YouTuber unannounced. I looked out the window and he was waiting in the street for me. Ex's don't like surprises, if that is what you are planning. Commiserate with others in similar situations, celebrate your wins, and hang out with people who just get it. Huge mistake on my part by doing that. I do this too. No doubt! Really hard to say what were her intentions. Obviously she felt guilty, and wanted you to hear her out. It seems to me she was so comfort Remember its his day for pick up. She is a mess right now too. and I freaked and broke up with her. Seems like basically what everyone is saying is be cautious. I have never gone to his work either. Found out there was NO emergency. We and our partners use cookies to Store and/or access information on a device. OTOH, if you broke it off and truly want to try again, can you not contact her by some other means? It has definitely set me back a little. I guess I put myself in the position of the ex; if I'd broken up with someone and was moving on, and he showed up at my house, I'd be annoyed, at the very least. What boundaries are appropriate for my boyfriend's ex? That happened more than once. its been 5 months with 1 month of strict nc. 8 ) /cheers and stay strong by your belives. You are not alone. He insists that I have cheated numerous times which is completely untrue and he keeps pushing me to go along with it but I will not lie. Been there done that. He just wanted to bully and intimidate me. Just imagine if you were dating someone. I personally wouldn't want to go back to my ex, no hell in way. And I know it isnt right for him to call me names and say nasty things. From your previous post it seems like you are making great progress. I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. I closed the door and walked away from it. My ex showed up once years ago after I started dating another girl. He was busy taking care of a sick child and not at his phone and HCBM decided it was a good idea to drive to our house because she was worried with her own mother in tow as a witness I assume all because she didnt get an update for a few hours. As of now we live on an emotional connection between the two weeks later the same school and doesn't make me reconsider our relationship, with out him. I would be throwing hands if BM walked into our home uninvited. She recently, before this incident, approached me about having a talk. LOL. I suppose going over there may not be the right thing to do but my mind keeps telling me I need to do something. Why didn't he want to be exclusive at that time? I love him with all my heart but he just will not believe me. Kartoff He mentioned names Id never heard of. Her: Again, I thought you should know how I feel about everything. She never realize how well I treated her until I was gone. I dont even do that to my own mother . We'll see what happens. Started Friday at 07:51 AM, By Regardless, I would recommed ever showing up to an exes house uninvited. If he contacts you again, talk over the phone. ._2a172ppKObqWfRHr8eWBKV{-ms-flex-negative:0;flex-shrink:0;margin-right:8px}._39-woRduNuowN7G4JTW4I8{margin-top:12px}._136QdRzXkGKNtSQ-h1fUru{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;margin:8px 0;width:100%}.r51dfG6q3N-4exmkjHQg_{font-size:10px;font-weight:700;letter-spacing:.5px;line-height:12px;text-transform:uppercase;-ms-flex-pack:justify;justify-content:space-between;-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center}.r51dfG6q3N-4exmkjHQg_,._2BnLYNBALzjH6p_ollJ-RF{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex}._2BnLYNBALzjH6p_ollJ-RF{margin-left:auto}._1-25VxiIsZFVU88qFh-T8p{padding:0}._2nxyf8XcTi2UZsUInEAcPs._2nxyf8XcTi2UZsUInEAcPs{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-widgetColors-sidebarWidgetTextColor)} There was one time he got caught up and missed picking her up but the school called both of them and she was picked up from aftercare. Yes the showing up unannounced is a bad sign! Parents make mistakes too. As Birdonawire mentioned, it's hard to say what she wants. If he continues to show up at your door getting angry, get a restraining order. ._1x9diBHPBP-hL1JiwUwJ5J{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:#ff585b;padding-left:3px;padding-right:24px}._2B0OHMLKb9TXNdd9g5Ere-,._1xKxnscCn2PjBiXhorZef4{height:16px;padding-right:4px;vertical-align:top}.icon._1LLqoNXrOsaIkMtOuTBmO5{height:20px;vertical-align:middle;padding-right:8px}.QB2Yrr8uihZVRhvwrKuMS{height:18px;padding-right:8px;vertical-align:top}._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._1LLqoNXrOsaIkMtOuTBmO5,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._2B0OHMLKb9TXNdd9g5Ere-,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._1xKxnscCn2PjBiXhorZef4,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 .QB2Yrr8uihZVRhvwrKuMS{fill:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)} ._2cHgYGbfV9EZMSThqLt2tx{margin-bottom:16px;border-radius:4px}._3Q7WCNdCi77r0_CKPoDSFY{width:75%;height:24px}._2wgLWvNKnhoJX3DUVT_3F-,._3Q7WCNdCi77r0_CKPoDSFY{background:var(--newCommunityTheme-field);background-size:200%;margin-bottom:16px;border-radius:4px}._2wgLWvNKnhoJX3DUVT_3F-{width:100%;height:46px} I was a mess for the first two months, but then I pull myself out of the funk. I don't think I'd communicate with him in person just yet. I've already told her that I'm not going to chase after her. Yeah, I was pretty pissed off when she told me that she was standing outside of my door. Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By TikTok: @xomissjaay, Sheryl Jacques. He sounds downright manipulative to me. I remember toward the beginning of our relationship my now ex bf told me, with tears in his eyes: "if you ever left me I'd wait day and noght outside your door for you to open". Ice queen What else is new, huh? 2. Unless the ex invites you, then no, I wouldn't do it. We haven't communicated there in months So hm. Is he interested or did I misunderstand the situation.. TikTok mom who got 'dumped' while pregnant shares how Tinder date became her fianc. I hate her and her audacity and crazy. ._1aTW4bdYQHgSZJe7BF2-XV{display:-ms-grid;display:grid;-ms-grid-columns:auto auto 42px;grid-template-columns:auto auto 42px;column-gap:12px}._3b9utyKN3e_kzVZ5ngPqAu,._21RLQh5PvUhC6vOKoFeHUP{font-size:16px;font-weight:500;line-height:20px}._21RLQh5PvUhC6vOKoFeHUP:before{content:"";margin-right:4px;color:#46d160}._22W-auD0n8kTKDVe0vWuyK,._244EzVTQLL3kMNnB03VmxK{display:inline-block;word-break:break-word}._22W-auD0n8kTKDVe0vWuyK{font-weight:500}._22W-auD0n8kTKDVe0vWuyK,._244EzVTQLL3kMNnB03VmxK{font-size:12px;line-height:16px}._244EzVTQLL3kMNnB03VmxK{font-weight:400;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText)}._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;margin-top:13px;margin-bottom:2px}._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO ._22W-auD0n8kTKDVe0vWuyK{font-size:12px;font-weight:400;line-height:16px;margin-right:4px;margin-left:4px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO .je4sRPuSI6UPjZt_xGz8y{border-radius:4px;box-sizing:border-box;height:21px;width:21px}._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO .je4sRPuSI6UPjZt_xGz8y:nth-child(2),._2xkErp6B3LSS13jtzdNJzO .je4sRPuSI6UPjZt_xGz8y:nth-child(3){margin-left:-9px} Me: Stop with the sorrys and crapPeople just don't show up like that..You just don't want to admit that you miss me..So just stop with the cover and say how you really feel. A lot of subtle tests too, saying like 'Well you don't have to see me anymore'. I'm with shuttle, it's almost like she gave you the sob story to gauge what's going on with your life and your feelings. Just imagine if you were d Showing up to a class I'm not enrolled in, Showing up to class as a 3L with a job offer, Showing up in ACUs to your civilian DUI hearing. The ultimate revelation of his feelings for you is the time he put in. Yes the trust is broken, I just hate this feeling. In addition, attorneys often put orders against harassment in divorce, custody and visitation judgments, which may also be violated by showing up unannounced at the other party's home. Call the police and make a complaint. He was psycho though & my father called the cops on him, of course he was gone by the time they But it really is an invasion of my privacy and not to mention just rude to show up to someones house unannounced. I basically said to her that I was fine now and it took me a very long time to pull myself out of the gutter and get back on my own two feet. Anyone reading my previous threads would know that my ex hates me and says he never wants to see me again. I don't mean going over their house a day or week after the breakup. Manage Settings I have not seen her since the break up. should applaud her she got balls. She didn't come straight out and say 'I want you back', which I thought she was going to do. Ask Your Own Parenting Question. Did you lose yourself in this relationship? Let it slide, because if it happened once it certainly bound to happen again at once point and you guys are not going to be the same peeps as you were prevously. Now I do and its partially because of the break up(got a great new job) so here I am. It caught me way offguard and the fact that she lied to me, bothers me. I'm sorry I bothered you. Thank You for Everything Youve Taught Me! My ex showed up at my house unannounced - wow bad idea for him. Both of us have been involved with other people, yet she still came running back to my apartment for whatever reason. DH has explained that if BM were to show up unannounced, I am to take the kids, hide in the closet where his pistol is stored, call the police, and if she breaches the thresh-hold, to shoot. It was discussed and both decided to have her just stay put. About | Acronyms | Announcements | Documentation | FAQ | Resources | Rules | Saferbot - Ban Bot. Did she come in and make coffee, and demand you to go get her the creamer she likes? She obviously has some issues to work out on her part though and maybe last night was the first step for her in doing that? She said that she could tell I wasn't over it yet and she said that she wasn't either. He didn't want to give concrete answers about the finality of our relationship so I made him My ex has only supervised visitation, but he keeps showing up at my house without notice or permission and making major scenes to see our son. Because it certainly isn't because he's making you happy. I suspect that if the "power struggle" and "game playing" weren't still going on she'd never have shown up to begin with. She has said stuff like 'I really want to talk to you. We recently filed charges against my ex for harassment etc. Never. Kartoff I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. He either needs to believe you and move on with you, or not believe you and end it once and for all. The whole thing sound pretty weird to me he just sounds a bit erratic. She denies everything. Indeed any kind of unannouced showing up is bad enough, but an ex doing it is truly messed up Yeah, I was It probably isn't a good idea if she was the one who broke it off. I was a bit shocked so I let him in and he had a cup of tea. In some cases, individuals do it out of anger or spite. OK, often "sorry" is just short for "Ha ha, I screwed you over and there's nothing you can do about it. Just wanted you to know." Sometimes it's ge He is acting just like I did, completely irrationally and confused. Big House With Lots And Lots Of Room . Submitted: 3 years ago. Your emotions will come flooding back and you will be left feeling worse than before you showed up. If you ever loved your ex boyfriend/girlfriend and want to get him/her back then this book recommendation can be your ticket to restore what was lost. My boyfriends bm is a HC at times. I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. 9 days later and as of last night we are officially back together and trying this thing again. & for anyone that takes this comment seriouslywhy??? Log in or register to post comments Really.. you would call the The trust is completely broken, it will take him a long time to get over this. I don't think there's good advice to be given here because you're in such a grey area. So she was worried about what to do etc.. That night when I caught her though of course she acted like she was trying to break up with me. Her anxiety makes her act up and look silly. Just to add too- I've been ignoring her weekly texts for roughly the last six weeks. I think he has some growing up to do. Only the one in her head. (Cite: Healing Journal). It looks like the finality of your break up finally hit her like a ton of bricks and she came running back to you. It was disasterous. ._3oeM4kc-2-4z-A0RTQLg0I{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-pack:justify;justify-content:space-between} Just asking opinions from lawyers of possible actions to do? Four months in and now she decides to pull this stunt? Actually, as far as being final messing with her I think that's a good example of you closing the door that she wanted kept open. I'm actually dating a lot of different girls, but I didn't tell her about this. What would she have done if you showed up unannounced like that and in that form? ENA has been a great support network you are all very nice people. Has anyone on here ever tried to go over the ex's house? You sound like you are doing great after your bu. toughlove1993 the next day I had called and her son answered and was like can i teach you some russian. 3 weeks later I caught her. Showing up to a public court with No Balls, Press J to jump to the feed. Has anyone tried to set something up through a relative etc? .s5ap8yh1b4ZfwxvHizW3f{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText);padding-top:5px}.s5ap8yh1b4ZfwxvHizW3f._19JhaP1slDQqu2XgT3vVS0{color:#ea0027} Just curious if anyone has tried to go over the ex's house after a few months of not seeing them. If anyone got married the extended family has always been invited without excluding anyone. Welcome to r/stepparents! You , Drawing Personality Test House Snake . She feels guilty (mentioned hurting you; you aren't over it). Their child was at our house one unscheduled night because she feel too sick and moving a sick child wasnt in the kiddos best interest (her dad works in healthcare) so it seems like a no brainer. Really hard to say what were her intentions. I dont understand why he wanted to talk after saying he never wanted to see me again. I know you love him and I know how painful it can be for you when you just want to be with him but right now you need to work on yourself and leave him to come to you. if they wanna see you, you'll know. Its difficult because him turning up was a reaction to my NC I think. We also have a lot of downvoting on the sub, with every post and every comment recieving at least one downvote almost immediately due to the anti-stepparent lurkers. Perhaps this was a mistake on my part. I (m/28) popped up last night at my exs house unannounced to collect a phone I got for her because her old phone was completely fucked under the Press J to jump to the feed. 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In reality she knew what she had except for some of my flaws and didnt know what to do. Just seems so crazy if you ask me. I was told that he kept telling her that he didn't want to be with her and she wasn't taking the hint and continued to hang out with him. By this point, I was like, Oh hell no. ._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa{margin-top:8px}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa ._3EpRuHW1VpLFcj-lugsvP_{color:inherit}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa svg._31U86fGhtxsxdGmOUf3KOM{color:inherit;fill:inherit;padding-right:8px}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa ._2mk9m3mkUAeEGtGQLNCVsJ{font-family:Noto Sans,Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;font-weight:400;line-height:18px;color:inherit} I tried explaining that I had friends that are guys and that they were JUST friends but he wouldnt buy that either. Just little comments you make. She's crazy. i would never force anything like that. Don't do it. .LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH{fill:var(--newRedditTheme-actionIcon);height:18px;width:18px}.LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH rect{stroke:var(--newRedditTheme-metaText)}._3J2-xIxxxP9ISzeLWCOUVc{height:18px}.FyLpt0kIWG1bTDWZ8HIL1{margin-top:4px}._2ntJEAiwKXBGvxrJiqxx_2,._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{vertical-align:middle}._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-inline-flexbox;display:inline-flex;-ms-flex-direction:row;flex-direction:row;-ms-flex-pack:center;justify-content:center} It seems to me she was so comfortable around you that she decided it would be brave thing to do. I guess I'm just disappointed in myself for even opening the door for her. 200+ Perfect Nicknames For Guys: Best Names Ideas. 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Because it's what you're used to? He didn't and was using her). She and our conversation was great. What really rubs me about this situation is this. I do wish I thought that would work Ive often told her that she can reach me if she needs but she refuses to because its his responsibility even though Ive been here for 3 years of the the childs 5 years on this earth. We have encountered a ridiculous amount of comments that don't follow the rules and are downright nasty. I was starting to feel like I was almost over her too and she just randomly shows up. I think we both have issues to deal with. I even told her that my mistake was not letting her go and letting her deal with her issues on her own instead of making her problems, my problems. 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I still can't get over the audacity of her, dude. I haven't read any of your other posts but he sounds like a person fresh into a breakup - hurt and angry. Some of our partners may process your data as a part of their legitimate business interest without asking for consent. Ya don't tell her. Or you'll have her really messing with your emotions. My ex showed up once years ago after I started dating another girl. That w Turns out he left. Oh yeah, her and I weren't even friends on Facebook (I removed the connection 3 months ago) and she completely blocked me today. Basically in a nutshell, my ex and I are still in college. obviously she had told her son I was learning russian. toughlove1993 There's also a no contact order against him yet he just pulled up ? I kept saying to her, So that's it? Im constantly trying not to get my hopes up but I still do Its also a constant battle to stay NC especially after today. 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